John Piper’s helpful recommendation on DesiringGod blog

So what should we do when we read psalms that do not represent our present experience?

  1. Realize that somewhere in the world there are Christians who right now are in this situation. Pray with them and for them.
  2. Realize that you will be in this situation sooner or later, and build this pattern of prayer into your life as preparation.
  3. Get to know God by the way the godly go to him and what they say to him and about him in such times.
  4. Give thanks for the relative peace and joy you have in this fragile season.